Do you have to keep doing all the holiday traditions?
What is most important?
Is it your family? Is it your friends? Buying presents? Wrapping presents? Stuffing stockings? Decorating? Cooking? Cleaning? Caring for the emotional health of everyone else? Making sure that you are the Martha Stewart of the annual parties you host? Volunteering at the food bank? The annual festival of the trees? Putting up Christmas lights? Driving for hours to look at lights? Singing in the choir? Learning all the songs because the choir director decided you should sing all the carols in their original languages? Getting up for midnight mass and making sure you and your children are all dressed in holiday finery? (Please equate this to the holiday you celebrate).
Do you see where I’m going with this?
Are you trying to do all the same things with chronic pain? If you can continue the way you always have, keep it up. Distractions and doing the things that make you happy reduces aches and flares.
Did you notice last year that when you tried to keep up with your usual activities, that it took you months to recover? Is it worth it?
Do you know that others just want to be with you? Your loved ones will not care if your house looks perfect. In fact, you may find that by being less perfect, not only do you relax but others can relax.
Before this season truly begins, look at what you want to let go of and do it. If it is an annual event held at your house, suggest someone else hosts it. If no one does, it was time to let go of that tradition.
Create your self-care list.
Promise that you will do one daily.
- Sit and stare at the world
- Talk with a good friend
- Play an instrument
- Do a puzzle
- Pet your animal
Make this your season of self-care with some fun activities intermixed.
You choose what you want to do.
Hugs and have a glorious peaceful season.
Gail Sinclair, Master Hypnotherapist, Certified Nutritional Consultant, & Karuna® Reiki Master Teacher works diligently to teach others how to work through the 7 Stages of Chronic Pain and Learn How to Thrive™. She lives with Trigeminal & Occipital Neuralgia, Rheumatoid & Osteoarthritis, & Fibromyalgia and continues to learn tools to turn her attention away from the persistent pain of her body.